So rest week is done and dusted and I’m back on the healthy eating/training/living wagon once more. Some parts were great, some parts were shit, but all parts taught me valuable lessons that I can take with me on the next phase of my journey.
So what did I learn?
1. Junk food sucks ass
When I started rest week, I saw that there were two different paths I could choose to go down.
A) Be kind, gentle and nurturing to myself, and use the time to rest, relax and rejuvenate.
B) Go buck wild and do all the stuff I’m normally not allowed to do.
I’ll give you a nanosecond to guess which option I went with.
It all started, innocently enough, on the way home from work. I had to rush to get home and make dinner before rushing off to pub quiz, which is normally a giant ball ache (the cooking, not the quiz). It’s shit, but I do it. This time however, Bad Nicola started yelling “KFC DRIVE-THRU” as soon as the key hit the ignition. Good Nicola was like “OH HELL YES”, and the rest is history.
Or to put it more accurately, the rest was: KFC, sandwich, coke, chocolate, pizza, coke, pies, chocolate, hamburger, coke, more pies, more hamburgers, more sandwiches, more KFC, Simply Asia, chocolate, FUCK MY LIFE THE GUILT, beer, pizza, more beer, tequila, beer beer beer, tequila, 4am McDonald’s, OMG I AM GOING TO THROW UP.
Bitch don’t mess around.
It started off fun, but it ended with me being painfully full, tired, grumpy, irritable, and generally not a nice person to be around. When I was living in Binge City for so many years, I thought everyone felt the same as me – permanently slow, full and tired. It was only when I switched to my current way of eating that I woke up, literally and figuratively, and realised that no, I didn’t have to live like that anymore. Last week I went back to living in a bad carb and bad fat-induced haze, and it taught me that I never want to go back there ever again. I want to feel alive and awake and energised and vital, and if that means that I never find out what those two new bloody Magnums taste like, so be it.
(On a side note, I also learned that my alcohol tolerance is still higher than the Empire State Building. High five for awesomeness.)
2. Being lazy is awesome
At the beginning of rest week, I was all moody and grumpy because I couldn’t go to the gym. It didn’t take long for that feeling to pass. Pretty soon I had swapped my “train, work, cook, sleep” routine for something along the lines of “bath, read, work, lounge around, binge watch series, eat takeaways, watch more tv, ooh let’s go for a beer, pass out”. I’d love to tell you that I soon saw the error of my ways, but unfortunately I loved it!
I may never get out of bed again.
When I’m in the zone, I’m super focused and I don’t stray from my path by one inch. My friends can all attest to this. But carrying on like this indefinitely eventually burns you out, and can have the opposite effect of driving you down a one-way road to Disaster Town. I don’t want this to happen, so in the future I’ve decided to make more time for me, and unclench from time to time. Nicola the Machine is great at losing weight and getting fit, but normal Nicola would like to read a book or stare glassy-eyed at the tv from time to time. And that’s not a crime.
3. The weekend is for rest
People always love saying, “if it’s not broke, don’t fix it”. Yawn. But they’re actually right. This year I changed a bunch of stuff that I didn’t need to. I added more training sessions, became more involved in giving people advice, immersed myself even more in health and fitness – and I think that’s what caused the house of cards to come tumbling down.
Ok no, at some point you actually are allowed to stop.
During my rest week I unplugged completely from all of this, and just gave myself some time to BREATHE. And it was exactly what I needed. So going forward I’m going to go back to what worked, and stop trying to change things that were fine to begin with. I don’t need to train 6 times a week, I don’t need to spend all my weekend time on Facebook forums, and I don’t need to dedicate my life solely to health and fitness. What I do need to do is take my weekends back and make them all about me. Because at the end of the day, that’s the only person who’s going to get me where I need to go.
4. My friends are awesome
And I really need to spend more time with them. Nuff said.
So with all that said, how did this week’s weigh-in go, you ask? Here’s how:
Er…
Yup, that’s right, not telling! I will tell you that yes, I did gain some weight (I ate KFC all week; I wasn’t exactly expecting a 10kg loss) although the gain wasn’t as big as I expected. I’m not embarrassed or worried about the gain – it’s water retention mostly and it’ll be gone in a week or two. The real reason I’m not showing you what’s on the scale is because I started Comeback Kid this week, and I’m keeping my starting weight a secret! Girl’s gotta have some kind of strategy up her sleeve! Mwaahaahaa!
What I will tell you is that as you can see, my feet look super fabulous again. That’s because during rest week, I visited Rouge Day Spa again and was treated to a gorgeous spa pedi by the wonderful Angelique, while I sat back and did absolutely nothing. Bliss!
It’s difficult to be stressed when you’re surrounded by comfort on all sides
As a nod to Singles Awareness Day on 14 February, I had my toes painted in gorgeous shiny Orly Ignite. I may not be getting any action but my toes sure as hell are!
So to recap, here’s what I’ll be taking forward through into the next stretch of my weight loss journey:
- Don’t eat the junk food, it’ll make you feel like shit
- Unclench once in a while, jeez
- Read books, take baths, watch as much series as you want
- SLEEP!!!!
- Stop training 6 days a week – you aren’t a machine
- Rouge Spa is awesome
- Rest week needs to happen more often (but don’t push it)
- You can still drink like a Davidson, well done!
Oh and of course no looking forward would be complete without a look back – so here’s a before and after of me and one of my best mates (woohoo Matthew) at his birthday in Feb 2013 and Feb 2014.
Good lord we are attractive people!
It’s good to be back!